If I decide with my mind, I am influenced by all kinds of thoughts that fight against one another.
If I try to decide with my eyes, even though I see with love, it is hard not to be influenced by what I actually see... how people look, react, and what they are doing.
If I decide with my heart, my judgments are never harsh. My heart takes into account the things that have hurt people... what they have had to deal with just to stay sane and alive. My heart thinks about fairness, comfort, and hope.